Budget Based Tips for Your Wedding

The cost of living has increased and so many couples are looking to plan their wedding on a budget.  Many couples look into ways to make their day elegant and special without breaking the budget.  Here are some budget friendly tips for your big day.

* Have a friend  who’s a real shutter bug?  Have them photograph the wedding.  Or have several of your photo crazy friends take pics and choose from them.

* Use photos to decorate the guest book or as centerpieces

* Pick a venue with a great décor in order to cut down on decorations

* Arrange for the ceremony and the reception in one spot – it will cut travel for the vendors

* If you choose bigger tables, you need fewer centerpieces and table cloths

* Avoid Saturdays – it’s the most popular wedding day.  Having your ceremony on a Friday can save thousands.

* Skip the champagne -  champagne can be quite expensive and sometimes goes to waste.

* Offer cocktail instead of full bar – having a host bar during cocktail hour and then switching to a cash bar is totally socially acceptable these days.

* Leave out the main course

* Rethink and minimize the list of guests. This will lessen your cost of catering and even the number of centerpieces and invitations

* Plan and prepare your own menu cards

* Stick to one to two kinds of flowers – have each bridesmaid only carry one large flower.

* Although it’s traditional for the bride and groom to get each other gifts, agree to skip this tradition to save money.

New 2011 Wedding Statistics including Budgets and Trends

TheKnot.com and WeddingChannel.com Announce New 2011 Wedding Statistics -- Including Average Wedding Budget and Top Wedding Trends

Largest Wedding Survey of 18,000 US Brides Reveals Wedding Budgets on the Rise for First Time in Five Years

NEW YORK, Mar 21, 2012 (BUSINESS WIRE) -- XO Group Inc. XOXO +0.22% , a global media and technology leader and creator of the top two wedding websites, TheKnot.com and WeddingChannel.com, today released the results of its annual Real Weddings Survey, which surveyed nearly 18,000 US couples married in 2011. TheKnot.com & WeddingChannel.com 2011 Real Weddings Survey captures detailed information on wedding budget, style preferences, event characteristics and other key information related to the bridal demographic.

“For the first time since 2008, wedding budgets are on the rise,” said Carley Roney, cofounder of The Knot. “In 2011, one in five US couples spent more than $30,000, and 11% spent more than $40,000 on their weddings. Our research shows that couples and their families are less concerned with the economy and are increasingly comfortable investing more in the once-in-a-lifetime occasion of their wedding.”

2011 Wedding Statistics

-- Average Wedding Budget: $27,021 (excludes honeymoon)

-- Most Expensive Place to Get Married: Manhattan, $65,824 average spend

-- Least Expensive Place to Get Married: West Virginia, $14,203 average spend

-- Average Spent on a Wedding Dress: $1,121

-- Average Marrying Age: Bride, 29; Groom, 30

-- Average Number of Guests: 141

-- Average Number of Bridesmaids: 4-5

-- Average Number of Groomsmen: 4-5

-- Most Popular Month to Get Engaged: December (16%)

-- Average Length of Engagement: 14 months

-- Most Popular Month to Get Married: September (15%)

-- Popular Wedding Colors: Blue (30%), Purple (25%), Green (24%)

-- Percentage of Destination Weddings: 24%

Top 20 Most Expensive Places to Get Married

Based on average wedding spend in 2011, these are the areas around the US where couples spend the most on their wedding.

1. NYC (Manhattan): $65,824

2. Chicago, IL: $53,069

3. NY Metro (Long Island, Hudson Valley and NYC Outer Boroughs): $50,087, $46,560, $40,356

4. Northern/Central NJ and Southern NJ: $46,600, $38,103

5. Rhode Island: $41,307

6. Santa Barbara/Ventura, CA, and Los Angeles, CA: $37,823, $37,690

7. Philadelphia, PA: $37,014

8. Boston, MA: $35,560

9. Southern Florida (Miami, Fort Lauderdale and surrounding areas): $34,465

10. Washington, DC, Northern Virginia and Suburban Maryland: $34,203

11. Connecticut: $33,789

12. Baltimore, MD: $32,702

13. Northern, CA, San Diego, CA, and Orange County/Inland Empire, CA: $32,261, $30,482, $29,826

14. Hawaii: $31,461

15. Pittsburgh, PA: $29,703

16. Louisiana: $28,790 *New to Top 20 List in 2011

17. Dallas, TX, Houston, TX, and Austin/San Antonio, TX: $28,717, $27,459, $27,735

18. California/Nevada (Sacramento, Tahoe and Reno): $28,028

19. Lehigh Valley/Poconos, PA: $27,339 *New to Top 20 List in 2011

20. Detroit, MI: $27,017 *New to Top 20 List in 2011

Interesting Regional Differences

TheKnot.com & WeddingChannel.com 2011 Real Weddings Survey can be broken down on a region-by-region basis across more than 80 markets. Regional highlights include:

-- Budget: New York City (Manhattan) has the highest average wedding budget ($65,824), and West Virginia has the lowest average wedding budget ($14,203), excluding honeymoon only.

-- Age: Hawaii has the oldest brides (31 years), whereas Utah has the youngest brides (26 years), on average.

-- Engagements: Mid-Atlantic brides (New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania) have the longest engagements (16 months), while brides from Alabama, Tennessee, Kentucky and Mississippi have the shortest (12 months), on average.

-- Wedding Size: On average, Iowa brides still have the largest number of wedding guests (215), and Hawaii and Nevada still have the smallest number of wedding guests (77 and 63, respectively).

-- Wedding Style: Hawaii has the most casual weddings (48%), while Long Island, NY, has the most formal (black-tie) weddings (37%).

-- Wedding Dress Spend: Brides in Manhattan spend the most on their dresses ($2,403), while North and South Dakotan brides spend the least ($745).

-- Registry: Brides in Central Illinois, are the most likely to register for wedding gifts (98%).

Top 10 2011 Wedding Trends

BIGGER BUDGETS. Brides are spending more on their weddings. For the first time since 2008, the average wedding budget has grown year over year, hitting $27,021. Fewer brides (29%) say the economy affected their wedding budget -- a decrease from 31% in 2010 and 34% in 2009. Wedding standards also rose for the first time since 2009, as the average wedding spend per guest increased to $196, compared with $194 in 2009.

PLANNING BEGINS EARLIER. Some brides are even starting to plan their wedding before their guy pops the question. Brides are now allowing themselves more time to plan, with one in three (31%) beginning to plan more than 12 months ahead (up from 28% in 2010). Plus, 16% of brides now plan their wedding before getting engaged. In the last three months leading up to their wedding, brides spend an average of 11 hours a week working on wedding details. Nearly one in three hire or use a wedding planner, with more than half of those brides (51%) hiring them for day-of coordination.

3-DAY-LONG, LUXURY WEDDINGS. High-end weddings are far more traditional. The luxury wedding segment (those spending an average of $100,000 on their wedding) had approximately 85,000 weddings in 2011 and represents a $9 billion industry. Luxury weddings are more formal/black-tie (46% vs. 15% of the non-luxury market) and larger (204 guests compared with 137 guests attending non-luxury weddings). Luxury weddings are also longer, with 74% of couples hosting three or more days of events. The look is also more traditional: Ivory/champagne and metallics are the most popular wedding color palettes among luxury brides.

LESS FORMAL STYLE. Casual weddings grow. Wedding style continues to move toward the more casual end of the spectrum. In 2011, 16% of brides said their wedding style was “casual,” compared with 14% in 2010 and 12% in 2009. While the “semi formal” category still reigns, with 65% of brides planning a wedding with that style in 2011, fewer brides are going for the “formal/black-tie” tradition, with only 16% describing their wedding that way in 2011, down from 18% in 2010 and 20% in 2009.

FALL WEDDINGS ARE MORE POPULAR. Unique wedding dates alter seasonal landscape. While summer will always be “wedding season,” 2011 saw a shift in seasonal popularity with only 37% of weddings taking place in months of June, July and August, down from 41% in 2010 and 2009. Partially owing to the popular wedding dates of 9/10/11 and 11/11/11, in 2011, fall grew in popularity, with 36% of weddings taking place in September, October and November months, compared with just 30% in 2010 and 2009.

PURPLE REIGNS. Purple is the fastest-growing wedding color. Purple weddings continued to be extremely popular, with one out of four brides (25%) choosing the palette, up from 21% in 2010 and only 16% in 2009. Other popular wedding colors include blue (30%), green (24%) and pink (22%). On the other hand, brown weddings are on their way out, with only 11% choosing the color in 2011, down from 21% in 2008 (when brown was the “it” color).

WEDDINGS ARE MORE INTERACTIVE. New types of guest “entertainment” are on the rise. Eating and drinking isn’t enough anymore. Custom guest entertainment, such as photo booths and comedians, is on the rise, with 22% of brides incorporating additional guest entertainment into their wedding (vs. 15% in 2010 and 11% in 2009). In addition, interactive food stations, such as a sommelier with wine tastings, a sushi chef or a cheesemonger, continue to be popular, with 14% of brides including this option in their receptions (up from 13% in 2010).

COUPLES STILL LOVE CUPCAKES. Wedding cakes have much more competition. While a majority of brides (67%) still go for a traditional tiered wedding cake, other desserts are also served during the reception. Great dessert options include items like a groom’s cake (19%), candy (15%) and baked goods like pies, cookies and brownies (20%), and cupcakes, surprisingly, grew again in popularity from 13% in 2010 to 17% in 2011.

EVERY WEDDING HAS A WEBSITE. Couples increasingly communicate with guests online. The vast majority of couples now have personal wedding websites (69% of couples created one in 2011 vs. 65% in 2010 and 60% in 2009), and brides are increasingly using social media to share wedding details with guests (45% of couples did so in 2011 vs. 32% in 2009). Nearly one in six brides (15%) even kept in contact with their vendors via Facebook and/or Twitter.

MOBILE TECHNOLOGY. Wedding planning has gone mobile. Nearly three out of five brides use their smartphones for wedding planning. Brides who have smartphones are doing a lot on the go, from taking and sharing wedding-related pictures (58%) and looking up wedding vendor contact information (47%) to accessing wedding planning websites (33%) and managing their wedding gift registry (32%).

About TheKnot.com & WeddingChannel.com 2011 Real Weddings Survey

The 2011 Real Weddings Survey captured responses from nearly 18,000 US brides married between January 1 and December 31, 2011; respondents were recruited throughout the year from TheKnot.com and WeddingChannel.com membership, which represents nearly 80% of brides nationwide. Brides received survey invitations shortly after their wedding date and were asked a comprehensive series of questions about the event and their planning process. All qualified respondents:

-- Were 18 or older

-- Had a wedding in 2011

Survey respondents represent a variety of ethnic, education and income levels, and are geographically dispersed across the country. The survey and data management partner for the study was Decipher Inc.

SOURCE: XO Group Inc.

Featured Designer: Paloma Blanca

Paloma Blanca has been servicing the bridal industry since 1937 from its own manufacturing facilities in Toronto, Canada, offering expert fit, high quality fabrications , attention to detail, styling and "on time" service." If you are a bride looking for style, elegance and simplicity, along with value, you should find your dream dress within their collection.

Their collections are featured in major Bridal publications worldwide and at various internet wedding planning sites. Cost on these gowns starting at $1600 (US) and up.

 

Featured Designer: Alfred Sung

Alfred Sung

"I love beauty, and what is more beautiful to see than a bride on her wedding day?" asks Alfred Sung, Canada’s top fashion designer and renowned international style maker. Mr. Sung’s name covers more than 20 licensed product lines in more than 50 markets internationally. He is also the creative force behind an exquisite collection of bridal gowns with an underlying theme of understated elegance. "There’s such liberty and scope in creating for such a special occasion," he reflects. "I can be either subtle or grand in design, lavish in fabric selection and use, and indulgent in details and ornamentation."

Alfred Sung’s exquisitely crafted Signature bridal collection comprises select gowns, ranging in silhouette from classically elegant to sumptuously romantic. His refined styling is evident in the sculptured bodices, graceful necklines, and dramatic off-the-shoulder and strapless looks, which are complemented by striking, contoured sleeves and flattering, accentuated waistlines.

 

His floating skirts rustle from multiple yards of Angel Tulle, silk essence chiffons, lustrous satins and shimmering organzas. Their workmanship and finishing details include ultra-fine French seams, ribbon-bound hems, curled hem-lines, pearl-edging, Swarovski Austrian crystal accents and tiny loop-and-covered-button closures.

And now, Alfred Sung introduces his newest and most exquisite line of bridal gowns - Pure Alfred Sung. These silk gowns are truly breath-taking and are a vision to behold.

Essie's New Creamsicle-y Wedding Colors

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Photo: Courtesy of Essie

Does Essie Weingarten ever sleep? I'm guessing no, because no sooner had I returned from the yummy press breakfast at Townhouse Spa to celebrate her hot summer hues (more on those in a bit) then news hit about her 2012 Bridal Collection, launching this very nano-second.

Pastels are massive in fashion and accessories this season, so with these four creamy shades — like to be bad, who is the boss, instant hot, and love & acceptance — Miss E's right on trend. Some are sheer, some are opaque, some are sparkly. But they're all utterly wedding-worthy.

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Photo: Courtesy of Essie

So about those summer shades, which are hitting salons next month...

Essie has partnered with TKEES, purveyors of the sleek flip-flops city gals can't get enough of. For each of the six shades in the "Bikini So Teeny" collection, there's a corresponding pair of TKEES. (So cute; check them out above.) I pretty much want a pair in every color. Trust me, you will too.